Victoria Kim

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
LMFT 50910

Phone: 619-858-3105 x 149

Rancho Bernardo Office

As a pastor’s wife, I am profoundly aware of the struggle to live out our faith in real life situations. As a person seeking counseling, you may be wondering why you “do what you do not want to do and don’t do what you do want to do”. Often, even the best of intentions cave under the anxieties and pressures of life, leaving us feeling the guilt and despair of not being able to live up to our expectations. The good news is you’re not alone! 

As a licensed MFT who has counseled individuals, couples, families, and children, I work with you to discover the underlying beliefs and patterns that often paralyze us from being able to think up more creative and flexible ways of approaching life. In counseling, I bring my background in public health, church leadership and marriage and family therapy to create a systematic understanding of all the factors that have led to you being who you are today. Being able to process this information in a safe, confidential and warm environment often creates new opportunities for experiencing the fulfilling relationships and life that we all desire. My goal in therapy is for you to feel empowered to approach your own life with confidence and joyous expectation as you experience healing and closeness in your relationships with others.

I have extensive experience in the following:

  • Anxiety

  • Family of Origin Issues

  • Parenting

  • Premarital & Marriage Counseling

  • Domestic Violence/Anger Management

  • Life Transitions

  • Grief

  • Personal Development

  • Cross-cultural Isues

  • Spirituality and Faith

Education and Training

  • B.S., Public Health from John Hopkins University; Baltimore, MD

  • M.A., Marriage and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary; Pasadena, CA

Professional Experience

  • Self-Esteem Enhancement Council – Marriage and Family Therapist Intern

  • Citrus Counseling – Facilitator of Domestic Violence, Anger Management and Parenting groups

Ministry Experience

  • Light of Love Mission Church – Women’s Ministries

  • San Diego Calvary Church – Leadership Development

Professional Organizations

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with the California Board of Behavioral Science, #MFC 50910

  • Member of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)


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